Plan - S.E.B.

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Plan – Stephen Edward Boudreau, S.E.B.

Prelude to Vision Statement

I create a personal vision statement before delving into my plan and template. A personal vision statement is identified after fearless and moral inventory taking and writing, following four thought-provoking steps, including values and beliefs, strengths and skills, goals and aspirations, and passions and interests. As follows:

1.  Values and Beliefs

a.  Personal Experiences

i.  Significant Life Events: Diagnosed with attention deficit disorder as a child, medication to treat illness rejected and Introduction to vices, illegal drugs, nicotine and alcohol as a teenager, resulting in substance abuse disorder that was internalized with denial until early forties after visits to numerous treatment facilities. Having experienced a decade of organized minor hockey as a goaltender as an adolescent, I learned to operate as an outsider within a tight-knit group. 

In my early thirties, I married a medical professional in the early stages of professional and personal development. We disconnected early in the relationship and had a child despite that. As a result of my then-pattern of substance abuse and my refusal to keep to myself, the relationship dissolved, and we are estranged. I have no contact with our daughter. 

Having undergone rehabilitation treatment on multiple occasions and suffering relapse, sometimes alcohol, sometimes illegal drugs, on every attempt since my last trip in 2025, I have identified process lessons through education, treatment and experience. Having not lost hope or enthusiasm, I am excited more and more as I get to know myself sober, on prescribed medications from medical professionals for my self-accepted and diagnosed conditions, with one vice, caffeine. 

Through experiences with drug addiction and alcoholism into my forties, I concluded that temperance through connection, medical and anonymous support is the best action. I'm a Red Seal Certified Journeyperson Cook. I founded a company in 2005 named Objective Marketing Group, despite having no education in commerce and found success with it, being profitable. My powerlessness over drugs and alcohol resulted in my closing the doors. I have completed all but one course to finish a university degree, achieving a professional qualification without credentials as a commissioned officer in the Royal Canadian Navy, and retiring honourably in 2020 with the retired title of Lieutenant Navy. I identify as Navy Trained, which includes duty, loyalty, integrity, and courage. Naval professional qualification without credentials comes at a cost. Bipolar one, and post-traumatic stress because of military treatment and culture while deployed over hundreds of days at sea.

I identified a woman as a muse, whom I only spent ninety days with, who likely has no positive impression of me, despite that it has profoundly impacted me and whom I called my Queen, and playfully now personally identify as the Queen of Hearts. I had never said anything like that before to women, and it sticks out. My memory of her affects me as a source of inspiration, including ingraining the characteristics of effort, honesty, bible study and education in the arts and identifying myself as "The Tramp"—embodying personality traits of Charlie Chaplin's character, including resilience, optimism, compassion, kindness, resourcefulness, ingenuity, playfulness, humour, loneliness and vulnerability. I have also become a born-again Christian. This muse inspired me to explore hypnotism instinctively. Through my experience, I have identified card games like Bridge, Baccarat and Texas Hold ‘em. Also, other games such as Chess and Go. I specifically study them and prioritize improving rather than focusing on a destination. I created a platform, my website, for creative expression, networking and connection, information sharing, personal development, and showcasing myself to potential opportunities. I officially call my father's place home. However, I'm homeless and prefer to go from person to person and be an outsider and an adventurer, going from place to place. I have identified my number, eight, which I use in various ways to mention my favourite shape, an octagon, and the number of my core values. My colour is black, which I wear the most. I identify as “The Tramp” through my personal experience.

ii.  Emotional Responses: My personal experience evokes a range of emotional responses.

a.  Self-Empathy and Compassion: My journey has had significant challenges, including substance abuse, estrangement from my daughter, mental health issues and a struggle for identity and belonging. I can recognize and acknowledge my feelings without judgment by understanding my emotional states and origins. I focus on treating myself with the same kindness and care I would offer someone I am close to in the now. I take it to mean being gentle to myself in times of rejection, failure or worst-case result. When I make a mistake, I encourage myself to acknowledge the error, learn from it and move on without self-punishment. This has led me to resilience. Giving me a stronger ability to bounce back from adversity.

b.  Inspiration and Hope: Despite my difficulties, I have experienced growth, self-discovery, and the pursuit of creative and personal goals. I’ve found inspiration in a muse, embraced new interests and personal development, and acted based on inspiration from memory, about my inspirations and otherwise. My creative action is based on external motivation from experienced stimuli, from persons in my presence or experienced through media and other immersive experiences. I am propelled by hopefulness, even though it is not expected. Expect the worst, hope for the best, rather than inaction from fear of failure, even though it is expected. When I fail, I do not lose hope and give up. I am in the state of mind to try again. This pattern leads to emotional resilience.

c.  Sadness and Reflection: Being homeless, my home address is my father’s house. Accepting mental health issues and being a loner and outsider evoke sorrow and reflection in the first contemplation. Then, I move on to the motivation to make lemonade from the lemons life provided. I identify as “The Tramp” because of my circumstances; sadness at expectation moves into excitement from hope, which is the faith. I have learned to keep the faith and not remember failure, giving me identity and purpose. An adventure awaits, and that is how I go about negative happenstances.

d.  Admiration for Resilience: My ability to overcome adversity, achieve professional success and maintain a sense of adventure and exploration as “The Tramp” has led to confidence in the outcome of resilience and determination. I am proud of my determination to go from failure to failure until I succeed. I have concluded that pain, struggle, lack of affection and being on the outside looking in have resulted from learning a valuable education that would garner an immense price tag. I have received it through experiencing it.

e.  Curiosity and Interest: I look for clues to find unique and personal identifiers such as the number eight, the colour black and identity as “The Tramp” which piques my interest in understanding the significance and more profound meaning behind these ideas. I consider this crucial in my learning, motivation and personal development. I wonder if I can write, sing, act by voice, on stage, or set and dance. This has led to my website, follow-on behaviours, and attempts to be considered. Curiosity has led me to art in all forms, and interest keeps me here. I will restate that I am motivated by faith in the journey despite expecting failure at the destination.

iii.  Repeated Patterns: The patterns identified in my inventory are:

a.  Resilience and Determination: My narrative consistently highlights the ability to overcome adversity. Highlighting bouncing back from failures and maintaining hope and determination despite setbacks.

b.  Self-Discovery and Personal Growth: A recurring theme of self-exploration and growth is driven by experiences, interests and inspirations. I exemplify onwards and upwards in self-thought.

c.  Connection and Support: The importance of connection, although an outsider, whether through medical support, anonymous groups or personal relationships, is a theme. I acknowledge that, although a Tramp, the role of external support systems is of utmost importance in my journey to continued temperance and self-acceptance.

d.  Identity and Belonging: I identify as a Navy-trained officer and a Tramp. I am an outsider who finds acceptance through personal experiences and reflections. I focus on making connections through groups, relying heavily on family ties as I go from person to person, place to place, group to group.

e.  Hope and Optimism: This pattern is evident in my approach to life; I expect the worst, hope for the best, and maintain faith in the journey.

iv.  Personal Growth:

a.  Self-Discovery and Acceptance: I have accepted my mental health conditions, which have allowed me to understand my limitations and strengths, which has led to a more authentic self-awareness.

b.  Overcoming Adversity:  The narrative highlights my ability to overcome substance abuse and mental health challenges. Despite numerous relapses and setbacks, I have demonstrated resilience by continuing to seek treatment and support. This ability to bounce back from adversity is critical to my personal growth, as it fosters strength and determination.

c.  Emotional Resilience: The text describes a range of emotional responses, including self-empathy, inspiration, hope, sadness, and reflection. My ability to process these emotions constructively, without self-punishment, contributes to emotional resilience. This resilience is evident in my approach to life, where I expect the worst but hope for the best, maintaining faith in the journey.

d.  Professional and Personal Achievements: Despite personal challenges, I have achieved professional success as a Red Seal Certified Journeyperson Cook and a commissioned officer in the Royal Canadian Navy. These accomplishments reflect personal growth through dedication, skill development, and goal pursuit.

e.  Creative Exploration and Interests: I have embraced new interests, such as card games, chess, and creative arts, contributing to personal development. Exploring passions and interests is vital to personal growth, as it encourages continuous learning and self-improvement.

f.  Connection and Support: Although identifying as an outsider, I recognize the importance of connection and support from medical professionals, anonymous groups, and personal relationships. Acknowledging external support systems is crucial for personal growth, providing a foundation for temperance and self-acceptance.

g.  Identity and Belonging: I identify with roles such as a Navy-trained officer and "The Tramp," which reflect my journey and experiences. Although my sense of identity and belonging are essential to personal growth, they also provide a sense of purpose and direction.

b.  Role Models

i.   Charlie Chaplin’s character “The Tramp”. I identify with this character, which embodies resilience, optimism, compassion, and resourcefulness.

ii.   Muse, Queen of Hearts. This woman profoundly impacted me, inspiring me to explore new interests and personal development. Her influence is evident in my creative pursuits and personal growth.

c.  Core Beliefs

i.  Temperance through Connection: The belief that overcoming substance abuse  and maintaining sobriety is best achieved through connection with medical and anonymous support systems.

ii.  Resilience and Determination: The belief in overcoming adversity and maintaining hope and determination despite setbacks.

iii.  Self-Discovery and Personal Growth: The belief in the importance of self-exploration and growth-driven experiences, interest, and inspirations.

iv.  Identity and Belonging: The belief in identifying with roles such as Navy-trained officer and “The Tramp” reflects personal experiences and provides a sense of purpose and direction.

v.  Hope and Optimism: The belief in expecting the worst but hoping for the best, maintaining faith in the journey.

2. Strengths and Skills

a. Resilience and Determination: I have demonstrated my ability to overcome adversity, as evidenced by my journey through substance abuse recovery and mental health challenges. My narrative highlights a consistent pattern of returning from failures while maintaining hope and determination despite setbacks.

b. Self-Discovery and Personal Growth: I have engaged in self-exploration and growth, driven by experiences, interests, and inspirations. I have embraced new interests such as card games, chess, and creative arts, which contribute to my personal development and continuous learning.

c. Professional Skills: I have succeeded professionally as a cook and a Navy-trained officer. These accomplishments reflect my dedication, skill development, and goal pursuit.  

d. Emotional Resilience: I have developed the ability to process a range of emotional responses constructively without self-punishment. This emotional resilience is evident in my approach to life, where I expect the worst and hope for the best, maintaining faith in the journey.

e. Connection and Support: Despite identifying as an outsider, I recognize the importance of connection and support from medical professionals, anonymous groups, and personal relationships. Acknowledging and establishing external support systems is crucial for my growth and self-acceptance.

f. Creative Exploration: I have embraced creative exploration and interests, which have contributed to my personal development. My curiosity and interest in understanding the significance and more profound meaning behind personal identifiers, such as the number eight, the colour black, the Queen of Hearts, and “The Tramp,” have led to creative pursuits and personal growth.

3. Goals and Aspirations

a. Sobriety and Mental Health Management: To maintain temperance and manage mental health conditions effectively. Emphasis on maintaining through connection despite being an outsider, relying on medical, anonymous support systems and family. 

b. Personal Growth and Self-Discovery: Highlighting contextualizes a commitment to lifelong learning, exploration and self-development. This includes embracing new interests and creative pursuits, such as card games, chess and the arts, which contribute to ongoing education and self-improvement.

c. Professional Development: Despite past challenges, there is a clear aspiration to achieve professional success, as demonstrated by previous accomplishments. Continuing to develop skills and pursue professional goals is a key aspiration.

4. Passions and Interests

a. Creative Arts: I have decided on and embraced creative exploration, which includes interests in writing, singing, acting and dancing. I am motivated by curiosity and interest in understanding the significance of personal identifiers and their more profound meaning, which has led to my creative pursuits.

b. Card and strategy games: I am interested in games like Bridge, Baccarat, Texas Hold’em, Chess and Go. The priority is improving in these areas instead of focusing on outcomes.

c. Personal Development and Self-Discovery: I am committed to lifelong learning, exploration, and self-development. This includes embracing new interests and creative pursuits, contributing to ongoing education and self-improvement.

d. Connection and Support: Despite identifying as an outsider, I recognize and prioritize the importance of connection and support from medical professionals, anonymous groups and personal relationships. This is crucial for growth and self-acceptance.

e. Exploration and Adventure: I identify as “The Tramp,” which reflects my sense of adventure and exploration. I prefer to go from place to place, embracing the journey and experiencing what it brings.

Vision Statement

“My vision is to embrace a life of continuous self-discovery and personal growth, maintaining sobriety and mental health through connection and support, while pursuing creative and professional aspirations with resilience and determination. I aim to live authentically as “The Tramp,” exploring new interests and adventures, and fostering meaningful connections despite being an outsider.”

Core Values

1.  Temperance through Connection: Overcoming substance abuse and maintaining sobriety is best achieved through connection with medical and anonymous support systems.

2.  Resilience and Determination: Overcoming adversity and maintaining hope and determination despite setbacks.

3.  Self-Discovery and Personal Growth: The importance of self-exploration and growth-driven experiences, interests, and inspirations.

4.  Identity and Belonging: Identifying with roles such as Navy-trained officer and “The Tramp” reflects personal experiences and provides a sense of purpose and direction.

5.  Hope and Optimism: Expecting the worst and hoping for the best, maintaining faith in the journey.

Long-term Goals

1.  Complete the website and continue working on new content.

2.  Get considered for a Bond movie either as 007 or 008.

3.  Become the lead singer of King, a rock band based on the best rock bands from the 1950s to the present day.

4.  The modern-day black-and-white silent movie “The Tramp,” including complete planning, brief, storyboard, audition, etc. With the goal of getting it considered for production with me in it as “The Tramp”

Short-term Objectives

1.  Complete planning, briefs, and execute projects one at a time for the website outline.

2.  Work on diet, living arrangements, hygiene, and wardrobe and improve in all areas.

Action Plan

1.  Maintain Sobriety and Mental Health

a.  Continue attending support groups and therapy sessions regularly

b.  Establish a routine for medication management and mental health check-ins.

c.  Build a support network of medical professionals, family, and friends.

2.  Personal Growth and Self-Discovery

a.  Dedicate weekly time to explore new interests, such as card games and creative arts.

b.  Set specific learning goals, such as mastering a new skill or completing a course.

c.  Reflect on personal experiences and document insights in a journal.

3.  Professional Development

a.  Identify and pursue opportunities for skill development in cooking and other professional areas.

b.  Network with professionals in desired fields, such as film and music, to explore potential collaborations.

c.  Set short-term career goals and create a timeline for achieving them.

4.  Creative Exploration

a.  Allocate time for creative pursuits, such as writing, singing, and acting.

b.  Develop a portfolio or showcase of creative work to share with potential collaborators.

c.  Attend workshops or classes to enhance creative skills.

5.  Website Development

a.  Outline the website structure and content plan.

b.  Set deadlines for completing each section of the website.

c.  Regularly update the website with new content and engage with the audience.

6.  Lifestyle Improvements

a.  Create a plan for improving diet, hygiene and wardrobe.

b.  Set achievable goals for living arrangements and work towards stability.

c.  Monitor progress and adjust the plan as needed.

7.  Long-term Aspirations

a.  Research opportunities in the film and music industry related to the goals of being in a Bond movie and leading a rock band.

b.  Develop a strategy for pitching ideas and projects to industry professionals.

c.  Stay informed about industry trends and opportunities

Potential Obstacles and Solutions

1.  Substance Abuse and Mental Health Challenges: Maintaining sobriety and managing mental health conditions can be ongoing challenges. Relapses or mental health crises could hinder progress in personal and professional areas.

2.  Lack of Stable Living Arrangements: Being homeless or having unstable living conditions can create significant barriers to achieving personal and professional goals. It can affect mental health, access to resources, and the ability to maintain a routine.

3.  Financial Constraints: Limited financial resources can restrict access to necessary support systems, educational opportunities, and professional development activities. It can also impact the ability to invest in creative projects or business ventures.

4.  Social Isolation: Identifying as an outsider and having limited connections can make it challenging to build a supportive network. This isolation can affect mental health and limit opportunities for collaboration and support in personal and professional endeavours.

5.  Professional and Creative Industry Challenges: Breaking into competitive fields like film and music requires networking, experience, and often financial investment. The lack of formal credentials or industry connections can be a significant obstacle.

6.  Consistency and Motivation: Maintaining motivation and consistency in pursuing long-term goals can be challenging, especially when facing setbacks or slow progress. Balancing multiple aspirations and managing time effectively is crucial.

7.  Health and Well-being: Physical health issues or neglecting self-care can impact the ability to pursue goals effectively. Ensuring a balanced lifestyle with proper diet, exercise, and self-care is essential for sustained progress.

Addressing these obstacles requires a proactive approach, including building a strong support network, seeking professional guidance, and focusing on personal well-being and resilience.

Progress Review

Review to take place June 1st, 2025.

Celebrate Achievements

To celebrate achievements, it's essential to acknowledge and appreciate the effort and progress made. Here are some ways to celebrate achievements:

1.  Personal Reflection and Gratitude: Reflect on the journey and express gratitude for the progress. This can be done through journaling or meditation.

2.  Share with Others: I will share my achievements with friends, family, or support groups. Celebrating with others will enhance the joy and encourage further self-growth.

3.  Reward Yourself: I treat myself to something special, maybe a small gift, a favourite activity, or a day of relaxation. This serves as a tangible acknowledgment of my hard work.

4.  Set New Goals: I will use the momentum from my achievements to set new goals. This will keep me motivated and help me maintain a forward-thinking mindset.

5.  Document the Achievement: Create a visual or written record of my achievements, such as photos, a certificate, or a note in a journal. This serves as a reminder of my success and will be motivating during challenging times.

6.  Reflect on Lessons Identified: Consider what you learned from the experience and how it can be applied to future endeavours. This reflection will provide valuable insights and reinforce personal growth.

Celebrating achievements in these ways can reinforce positive behaviours, boost self-esteem, and maintain motivation for future goals.

Reflect and Revise

Revisions coming June 2025.